A Son's Story of His Father

Brett Hurt

(@bazaarbrett) —  Founder and CEO

My father, Brian Douglas Hurt, passed away last night at 3am.  He passed in his sleep from a sudden heart attack and, fortunately, it seems like it happened almost immediately.  I got the call from my sister around 3:15am, and I have been ever up since, holding my mother, her, and my niece after it happened.

This is an incredibly tough call to receive, and I have been through a wide range of emotions in the last 12 hours.  One way I am dealing with this is by writing this post, which I realize is more personal than my previous Bazaarblog posts, and you will not offend me if you stop reading now.

My father was a great man, but not one to intentionally draw attention.  But attention needs to be intentionally drawn.  My father was a great husband, father, grandfather, brother, inventor, entrepreneur, patent-holder, and natural-born comedian.  He has had a huge influence on my life, especially my drive as an entrepreneur.

My father was an Austin entrepreneur since the time I was born.  He blended his passion with his business.  He loved to go fishing off the Texas coast (mainly Port O'Conner), and spent 2-3 days almost every week doing that.  But he wouldn't just fish – he would innovate.  He developed the world's first halogen fishing light.  Fish are like insects in that they are attracted to the light.  He received a patent for this invention, and shipped the product all over the world.  Dad became successful as a result.

Being an incredibly generous man, he would always help his friends.  One of his friends was financially down on his luck.  My father had been working on a new variation of fishing lights, using a green band of light.  This was his "secret weapon" and fish would swarm to the greenish glow in a more unusual fashion than his previous halogen light.  Instead of capitalizing on it, my father gave it to his friend – for free.  Months later, his friend was selling over $300,000 per month of the product.  Dad never asked him for a penny.  I have been told by those in the industry that this is the dominant fishing light worldwide now.

Being an incredibly balanced man, he knew what he valued in life.  When I was 10, Wal-Mart approached my father to carry his products in all of their stores nationwide.  Dad turned them down.  I remember intensely pushing my father to do the deal.  Dad had declined because he did not want to ramp up his operation to that level.  It would have made him extremely wealthy, potentially, but it would complicate his life.  And he knew he was happy already.  I remember him looking me in the eye and saying, "Son, one day you may realize the value of keeping life simple… or you may not".

Being an incredibly creative man, he followed many passions in life.  This made him come off to many as eccentric.  But it also made him come off as fun and genius to many of his friends and family.  Here are some of them:

  • The first synthetic food for monarch butterfly breeding.  This earned him accolades in a worldwide monarch fan club.
  • The largest hand-made, hand-ground telescope.  The mirror has to be accurate to one-millionth of an inch.  Dad hand-ground the mirror for eight hours per day, using lasers to measure precision, for more than a year.  It was tremendously better than any telescope that most people could afford to buy.
  • A fiberglass, street-legal race-car.  At over 500 horsepower and weighing 2,000 pounds with an almost perfect 50/50 weight ratio, it was a ridiculous driving experience.
  • The first robotic fishing boat.  This was his current project, and he had been working on it for over three years.  You controlled it using a color digital interface from the shoreline.  It would sense when fish were biting and automatically reel them in.  Because it was so small and silent, the largest fish in Lake Austin did not expect it (they were smart enough to hear a motorboat – that's why they were so old and large).  As a result, Dad caught fish that he would weigh and show that they would be a Texas record.  But then he would unhook them and return them to the lake, letting them continue to live.  He wasn't looking for glory.
  • and I could go on and on about his hand-made aquariums, huge kites, remote-controlled miniature race-cars, Koi pond, and so much more.

I will miss you, Dad.  I love you.  And I will continue to work hard to be the son, father, husband, brother, inventor, patent-holder, and entrepreneur that you would expect me to be and to become.

And thank you so much to my many friends and family that have been so supportive during this difficult time.  I sincerely appreciate your thoughts, prayers, and gifts.  I am truly blessed to know so many good people.  See a small sampling of the flowers that have been received at our house on Friday.  There are many others at my Mom's house.

If you would like, see photos of my father.  He was a very popular neighbor.  He would give away almost all of the fish to all of our neighbors, and this went on for decades.  Red snapper, you name it.  I grew up eating well.

Update on Saturday: so many more beautiful flowers have been delivered to our house, and I want to share the images of them with you.

  • http://www.teachstreet.com Dave Schappell

    Brett and Debra — I'm very sorry to hear about your father's passing. I think the tribute is fantastic. Hope you can remember all the wonderful times.

    Dave

  • http://www.teachstreet.com Dave Schappell

    Brett and Debra — I'm very sorry to hear about your father's passing. I think the tribute is fantastic. Hope you can remember all the wonderful times.

    Dave

  • Jeff Bowman

    Brett, great tribute to your father. Thanks for sharing and I am sure he will live on within you and your family.

    God's Speed!

    jeff bowman

  • Jeff Bowman

    Brett, great tribute to your father. Thanks for sharing and I am sure he will live on within you and your family.

    God's Speed!

    jeff bowman

  • Richard Currier

    Brett,

    My condolences.

    Your father sounded like a great man. I am sure you made him very proud.

  • Richard Currier

    Brett,

    My condolences.

    Your father sounded like a great man. I am sure you made him very proud.

  • http://www.bazaarvoice.com Brett Hurt | Founder and CEO

    Thank you, Chris. My grandfather (on my Dad's side) passed away two years ago. He made a profound influence on me, and that was a very difficult loss for all of us. I realize now how much I have been greatly shaped by both of them. My grandfather was in academia (advanced mathematics) for 35 years, teaching at U.T. Austin and USC. *Very* different from my Dad. But they were both the same in that they were brilliant, just in very different ways. Dad shunned academia, but he was very proud of me attending and then serving Wharton.

    Glad to hear you are paying tribute to your grandfather by remembering him. And glad that your father is alive and well.

    Thank you again for the very kind words.

  • http://www.bazaarvoice.com Brett Hurt | Founder and CEO

    Thank you, Chris. My grandfather (on my Dad's side) passed away two years ago. He made a profound influence on me, and that was a very difficult loss for all of us. I realize now how much I have been greatly shaped by both of them. My grandfather was in academia (advanced mathematics) for 35 years, teaching at U.T. Austin and USC. *Very* different from my Dad. But they were both the same in that they were brilliant, just in very different ways. Dad shunned academia, but he was very proud of me attending and then serving Wharton.

    Glad to hear you are paying tribute to your grandfather by remembering him. And glad that your father is alive and well.

    Thank you again for the very kind words.

  • http://www.bside.com Chris Hyams

    brett – so sorry to hear about your father. a lovely tribute. i was just in los angeles last week and made a trip to visit my grandfather's grave. along with my father, he was the man that most shaped my views on the world, justice, equality, and service to others. he's been gone for 15 years now, but he is still reflected in every part of me, as i'm sure your father will be in you as long as you live.

  • http://www.bside.com Chris Hyams

    brett – so sorry to hear about your father. a lovely tribute. i was just in los angeles last week and made a trip to visit my grandfather's grave. along with my father, he was the man that most shaped my views on the world, justice, equality, and service to others. he's been gone for 15 years now, but he is still reflected in every part of me, as i'm sure your father will be in you as long as you live.

  • http://patscherer.blogspot.com Pat Scherer

    Brett – thank you for sharing your stories about your father. He was obviously a very special person and you are blessed having his influence and direction in your life. Your words reminded me of all the people who I have connected with over the years who have influenced me in positive ways. May you be surrounded by those you love in this time of loss

    Pat

  • http://patscherer.blogspot.com Pat Scherer

    Brett – thank you for sharing your stories about your father. He was obviously a very special person and you are blessed having his influence and direction in your life. Your words reminded me of all the people who I have connected with over the years who have influenced me in positive ways. May you be surrounded by those you love in this time of loss

    Pat

  • http://www.catalog-biz.com Sherry Chiger

    Brett–

    So sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like a wonderful guy, and I'm sure your memories will comfort you in the days ahead.

    Sherry

  • http://www.catalog-biz.com Sherry Chiger

    Brett–

    So sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like a wonderful guy, and I'm sure your memories will comfort you in the days ahead.

    Sherry

  • Jacy Legault

    Brett,

    Lee and I are sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing that tribute; it caused me to reflect upon my youth and reminded me of the role my father has played in shaping my life.

    Jacy

  • Jacy Legault

    Brett,

    Lee and I are sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing that tribute; it caused me to reflect upon my youth and reminded me of the role my father has played in shaping my life.

    Jacy

  • http://www.bazaarvoice.com Brett Hurt | Founder and CEO

    Thank you very much to all that have posted a comment. I am truly blessed to know so many incredible people. My Mom is sincerely touched by your comments – they mean a great deal to her, me, Debra, and my sister. You give all of us strength.

    Dad would be touched to see so many people write with such sincerity. And he would be happy about his passing bringing other families together.

  • http://www.bazaarvoice.com Brett Hurt | Founder and CEO

    Thank you very much to all that have posted a comment. I am truly blessed to know so many incredible people. My Mom is sincerely touched by your comments – they mean a great deal to her, me, Debra, and my sister. You give all of us strength.

    Dad would be touched to see so many people write with such sincerity. And he would be happy about his passing bringing other families together.

  • Jim Osborne

    Hey Brett…I vividly remember you telling me some of these stories of your Dad over dinner one night. I smiled as much reading them here as I did that evening…what a great tribute to a wonderful man. I'm so sorry for your loss. All the best to you and your family.

  • Jim Osborne

    Hey Brett…I vividly remember you telling me some of these stories of your Dad over dinner one night. I smiled as much reading them here as I did that evening…what a great tribute to a wonderful man. I'm so sorry for your loss. All the best to you and your family.

  • http://www.seamlessdisplay.com Justin

    Brett,

    A poignant tribute to a very inventive and well balanced man. I wish that I could have met him. He sounds like an inspiration and no doubt a large part of why your company has been so successful.

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

    Justin

  • http://www.seamlessdisplay.com Justin

    Brett,

    A poignant tribute to a very inventive and well balanced man. I wish that I could have met him. He sounds like an inspiration and no doubt a large part of why your company has been so successful.

    My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

    Justin

  • http://www.globalcapitalmarkets.com Pat

    You're a great son Brett. Your Dad is extremely proud of you.

  • http://www.globalcapitalmarkets.com Pat

    You're a great son Brett. Your Dad is extremely proud of you.

  • http://www.sparksight.com Christopher Justice

    I was touched by the memories of your father. Your account of his life and his inspiration to you must be only a small glimpse of the dignity and integrity he represented. I am sorry I never had the chance to meet him. My sympathies to you and your family.

    You've experienced a loss that I fear each day as I grow older but the way you represent your father gives me strength. Thank you. God bless.

    Christopher Justice

  • http://www.sparksight.com Christopher Justice

    I was touched by the memories of your father. Your account of his life and his inspiration to you must be only a small glimpse of the dignity and integrity he represented. I am sorry I never had the chance to meet him. My sympathies to you and your family.

    You've experienced a loss that I fear each day as I grow older but the way you represent your father gives me strength. Thank you. God bless.

    Christopher Justice

  • http://www.ripplecentral.com Steve Harper

    Brett,

    I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. There is rarely a good thing to say a time like this so I won't even try. I just know that your dad had to be super proud of the man you have become. There is no doubt in my mind that the apple hasn't fallen far from the tree my friend.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please do not hesitate to let me know if you need anything – day or night! I am just a phone call away.

    Steve Harper
    512-577-3700
    steve@ripplecentral.com

  • http://www.ripplecentral.com Steve Harper

    Brett,

    I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. There is rarely a good thing to say a time like this so I won't even try. I just know that your dad had to be super proud of the man you have become. There is no doubt in my mind that the apple hasn't fallen far from the tree my friend.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please do not hesitate to let me know if you need anything – day or night! I am just a phone call away.

    Steve Harper
    512-577-3700
    steve@ripplecentral.com

  • Scott R.

    Brett – so sorry to hear about your father. All my best wishes to you and your family. Scott

  • Scott R.

    Brett – so sorry to hear about your father. All my best wishes to you and your family. Scott

  • ContentRobot Team

    Brett …

    The ContentRobot Team extends our sympathies to you and your family. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about your dad with us.

    … Karen & Dana

  • ContentRobot Team

    Brett …

    The ContentRobot Team extends our sympathies to you and your family. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about your dad with us.

    … Karen & Dana

  • aakriti

    Dear Brett,
    Sorry to hear about your father's demise. Parents are the first mentors we have, who teach us the lessons of life. They give us endless love and support in everything we do.

    Thanks for sharing this wonderful article with us. Your dad lives on in you and your work.

  • aakriti

    Dear Brett,
    Sorry to hear about your father's demise. Parents are the first mentors we have, who teach us the lessons of life. They give us endless love and support in everything we do.

    Thanks for sharing this wonderful article with us. Your dad lives on in you and your work.

  • Devendra Shrikhande

    Brett, thank you for sharing your experiences and introducing us to your father. We are always too young to lose our parents. Losing a parent is a pain that never fully goes away. But on the other hand, when you know someone that well and have shared so much together – they are never really far away and a part of you forever. My sincere thoughts and support to your and your family during this difficult period.

  • Devendra Shrikhande

    Brett, thank you for sharing your experiences and introducing us to your father. We are always too young to lose our parents. Losing a parent is a pain that never fully goes away. But on the other hand, when you know someone that well and have shared so much together – they are never really far away and a part of you forever. My sincere thoughts and support to your and your family during this difficult period.

  • http://www.dwellgo.com Damon Flowers

    Brett, I've been inspired by you for the short time that I've known you and now understand a little about your father, who sounds like a great man and role model. I know you must feel blessed to have grown up as a son to a father like that, and it shows… I pray that God would bring healing and love to you and your family.

  • http://www.dwellgo.com Damon Flowers

    Brett, I've been inspired by you for the short time that I've known you and now understand a little about your father, who sounds like a great man and role model. I know you must feel blessed to have grown up as a son to a father like that, and it shows… I pray that God would bring healing and love to you and your family.

  • http://www.beyondindigo.com/ Dave

    Brett

    I lost my Mom a few years ago and it's a part of life that is unbelievably hard – emotions showed up in strange ways and at strange times.

    I found this site to be helpful in connecting with others who are going through the same experience, it helped the healing process to share with others – hope it can be a valuable resource if you need it.

    http://www.beyondindigo.com/

    I wish you peace
    Dave

  • http://www.beyondindigo.com/ Dave

    Brett

    I lost my Mom a few years ago and it's a part of life that is unbelievably hard – emotions showed up in strange ways and at strange times.

    I found this site to be helpful in connecting with others who are going through the same experience, it helped the healing process to share with others – hope it can be a valuable resource if you need it.

    http://www.beyondindigo.com/

    I wish you peace
    Dave

  • http://calvinsjewelry.com Calvin & Jackie

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful memories you have of your father and the countless influences he has had on your life. That will get you through the sadness to a day when all you will do is smile when you think of him and the wonderful times you shared. It's so hard. I know from losing my own father and we feel so bad for you and your family. You are in our prayers asking God to comfort you. All our love and hugs,

    Calvin & Jackie

  • http://calvinsjewelry.com Calvin & Jackie

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful memories you have of your father and the countless influences he has had on your life. That will get you through the sadness to a day when all you will do is smile when you think of him and the wonderful times you shared. It's so hard. I know from losing my own father and we feel so bad for you and your family. You are in our prayers asking God to comfort you. All our love and hugs,

    Calvin & Jackie

  • http://socialwebstrategies.com Jon Lebkowsky

    Brett, so sorry to hear of your loss. Clearly your Dad was remarkable, I wish I had met him.

  • http://socialwebstrategies.com Jon Lebkowsky

    Brett, so sorry to hear of your loss. Clearly your Dad was remarkable, I wish I had met him.

  • http://www.apogee-search.com Bill Leake

    Brett:

    Thanks for sharing with us these several memories and life lessons from your father's life. As an entrepreneur, I'm constantly struggling with (and am usually on the wrong end of) work/life balance, and with complexity vs. simplicity. Your father seemed to discover, relatively early on, some of the things that brought him the greatest peace and happiness, and invested his time, talents, and treasure into those areas. Would that we could all learn from him the way that you have.

    I never had the pleasure of meeting your father, but thanks to your story, I can now share in a small way both in celebrating what he brought to this world, and in mourning his departure.

    Bill

  • http://www.apogee-search.com Bill Leake

    Brett:

    Thanks for sharing with us these several memories and life lessons from your father's life. As an entrepreneur, I'm constantly struggling with (and am usually on the wrong end of) work/life balance, and with complexity vs. simplicity. Your father seemed to discover, relatively early on, some of the things that brought him the greatest peace and happiness, and invested his time, talents, and treasure into those areas. Would that we could all learn from him the way that you have.

    I never had the pleasure of meeting your father, but thanks to your story, I can now share in a small way both in celebrating what he brought to this world, and in mourning his departure.

    Bill

  • http://www.powered.com mark drosos

    Brett, Sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My best wishes to you and your family. You're story keeps the mind clear on what is important.
    Mark

  • http://www.powered.com mark drosos

    Brett, Sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My best wishes to you and your family. You're story keeps the mind clear on what is important.
    Mark

  • http://www.careflash.com Jay Drayer

    Hey Brett –
    Your account of your Dad… and the impact he had on you over time was wonderful reading. I'm sorry to learn of your loss but overjoyed seeing all the wonderful ways you and he touched each other over time. And I love the wonderful thread around opportunism and entrepreneurship!

    Following one poignant experience I had, where I witnessed the second plane's impact on the world trade center as I was headed to a 9am meeting at 60 Wall St. on 9/11, I committed to myself that I was going to spend more 1:1 time with my Dad… bicycling, camping and the like. While over time I've been successful in accomplishing this, your account has helped me to realize that as I continue to develop CareFlash, especially in the overwhelming enthusiasm I have for what we do, I see loud and clear that my quest to honor my Dad in this way has fallen by the wayside. Your account has helped me to renew my zeal for this priority and I'm going to do something today to put this back on the tracks.

    Thank you very much and all the best to you and your family.

    Jay Drayer
    CareFlash.com

  • http://www.careflash.com Jay Drayer

    Hey Brett –
    Your account of your Dad… and the impact he had on you over time was wonderful reading. I'm sorry to learn of your loss but overjoyed seeing all the wonderful ways you and he touched each other over time. And I love the wonderful thread around opportunism and entrepreneurship!

    Following one poignant experience I had, where I witnessed the second plane's impact on the world trade center as I was headed to a 9am meeting at 60 Wall St. on 9/11, I committed to myself that I was going to spend more 1:1 time with my Dad… bicycling, camping and the like. While over time I've been successful in accomplishing this, your account has helped me to realize that as I continue to develop CareFlash, especially in the overwhelming enthusiasm I have for what we do, I see loud and clear that my quest to honor my Dad in this way has fallen by the wayside. Your account has helped me to renew my zeal for this priority and I'm going to do something today to put this back on the tracks.

    Thank you very much and all the best to you and your family.

    Jay Drayer
    CareFlash.com